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Mitra
04-03-2006, 06:04 AM
There's an Indian story (in the Taittiriya Upanishad) about a boy who asks his father to teach him about the source of life. His father tells him to go away and meditate on what produces and supports the body, life, sight, hearing, mind and speech and what they return to after death.

The boy comes back and reports that having done his meditation he has discovered that food is the source of life. We eat food to grow and develop, we need it to sustain us, and when we die we become food for other creatures.

I sometimes feel that's where we are - we've had problems, looked into how our bodies work, discovered that they need the right fuel to run properly, and generally spent a lot of time meditating on food!

In the story, though, the son isn't quite satisfied with this answer, so he comes back to his father and is sent off to meditate again on the same question. The next time, he comes back and says that the answer is that breath is the source of life. In the same way that food stands for the physical body, breath stands for the activities of the body. Our boy's discovered the benefits of exercise!

But he's still not quite satisfied, so they go round the cycle again. This time he comes up with the mind: intellectual activity. And that's the starting point here in the Other 20% section. Yes, there is life beyond diet and exercise :D.

Actually, the intellect doesn't satisfy this young Indian boy, either. He goes through the process twice more, finding "heart" at the fourth time, and "joy" or spirit on his fifth and final attempt.

With rather more brevity than I've achieved, the Eadeses say, "A lifestyle program that maximises physical health, but ignores mental, spiritual and emotional health is half a program."

When your diet is well-established, and you're exercising regularly, I don't think it's conducive to greater happiness or fulfilment to continue fretting about every detail of your menu, or worrying about whether you need to lose another 1/2% of body fat. I love food, and I love to cook. It will always occupy a good chunk of my time and attention, but I've reached a point where I don't need to devote much time and energy to how to improve my health through food. I've achieved the major returns, and reached the point where large amounts of additional effort will only produce a tiny benefit. The same with exercise - I'm doing it, and getting the major returns. Those things just need a low level of effort to keep them on track.

If you still have big problems sticking with your food and exercise goals, then that's probably where you need to focus your efforts, but if they're more or less under control, what's next?

I want to work on some mental things - reading, learning languages; music I think bridges the gap - it's partly mental and partly about the heart, poetry could come in here, too. And I want to devote more time to meditation, which I've rather neglected in my yoga practice in my efforts to build up the exercise part.

Bearing in mind Gaelen's posts on habits, I'm not going to try to do all of this at once, but it's all there in the queue. This month I'm starting by establishing the habit of setting aside time for reading and music. When that's settled, I'll look at how to develop it.

Does this make any sense to anybody else? Is there enough interest that we can help one another along in these areas?

Shadow
04-03-2006, 10:15 AM
Janet - Makes perfect sense to me! I know I can still tend to obsess over eating and exercise, but it really is a futile effort. I know how to eat, I have exercised for years - so it's time to focus on something else. Like you, I'm using this month's challenge to focus on other things. Besides, I find I enjoy the exercise and eating more when I lose my obsession and they become just another part of my day :).

banshee
04-03-2006, 01:44 PM
I'd love to participate in this. I was at a restaurant the other day and overheard two gentlmen talking about music. They were clearly jazz fans, and also clearly musicians themselves. It reminded me that I don't have anyone that I can share my love of music, piano, and singing with, and I was wondering if it would be possible to find a choir locally that sings just for fun and isn't associated with a particular group. (Being a university town, a lot of the activities are geared toward students.)

While I don't have any trouble with making "me" time for myself, it's primarily alone time. If I don't have alone time every week where I can just sit and bead or enjoy a good book, I can't function well. I know when I haven't had enough alone time when I start to get irritable at just the thought of going out to dinner with friends. But I think I need to spend some time making new friends in an activity that isn't related to work. Most of the people I currently spend time with are associated with computers in one way or another, and the conversations always end up in the same place. I've been feeling the need to have people I can talk to about other things, but my current friends don't have the same non-work interests. I find it so hard to meet new people...

Anyway, I don't know that I have time for it right at the moment, because I really have to get my office back into shape and I just won't feel right going out and enjoying myself when I have piles of boxes cluttering up my living room. But as soon as I get that project finished, I'd like to start working on the other 20% of my social life!

Mitra
04-17-2006, 04:28 AM
I haven't forgotten about this, but I do sometimes move a bit slowly!

How do you think we could work it?


A regular (weekly? monthly?) thread started by different people;
Long-running threads on the different aspects (hobbies, music, meditation ...) that people could drop in on as and when they want to (I suspect they might die off though, unless we have some way to keep up a bit of interest);
Some organised activities, like, say a "reading club" that could take books or poems to read and discuss - we could use something like the Gutenberg collection of free texts of the classics.Do you think any of those would work? Any more ideas?